Red Thigh High Boots

I picked the second worst day of the year to go to Pierre Silber's in Santa Clara and shop for boots in a store made of corrugated steel. I had a photoshoot coming up with my friend "B" and wanted something new and fun. They are the red thigh highs on here. The ends justify the means and I ordered a pair in white online. The other pair I bought that day will surface in an upcoming shoot. Later that night, we got out of the freezing cold and wind and shot a bit at my place. I put my favorite black stiletto boots and felt "right" again. I wish I could buy more of that pair, but they aren't available anymore,. Any leads to quality black leather 4" stiletto heel boots in a wide-ish width are really appreciated.

It all comes down to the breath. I keep seeing this in so many paths and teachings that I study. Recently, I started to read "Urban Tantra" by Barbara Carrellas. In the foreword, it's mentioned that she taught and did seminars with Chester Mainard. Chester was my first massage teacher. "Teacher" isn't quite adequate to describe what Chester was to me. It was also far beyond massage.

The first thing I learned from Chester was breathing. The breathe is simple. It's also our most vital function. In "The Enlightened Sex Manual", David Deida writes, "Love's light wants to express ourselves through our bodies. But even though our deepest self want's to open and live as love, our superficial self is afraid. So we hold back the spontaneous and powerful expression of love flowing through our bodies. We do this primarily by suppressing our breath.

Breath is the way our bodies make love with God (or our higher selves, the supreme being, "Light", etc... whatever you believe in - OS). When we are willing to be love, then we are willing to breathe love."

Back to Chester and the breath. The technique he first taught me in our class was the Anal Breath. Yeah, all kinds of jokes come to mind. However, it's a cornerstone of my massage practice, and many other facets of my life.

Next post, how to do Anal Breathing.